Endless Bliss

A Mother's Work Is Never Done

2010-05-09T20:11:00.000-07:00

(My Tiegan recited this poem to me for Mother's Day. And I wouldn't want it any other way.)

"Oh, a mother's work is never done,

And she doesn't have much time for play or fun.
It's a struggle to get through it,
Only mothers seem to do it.
Yes, a mother's work is never done!

Wake the kids up with a smile,
make the breakfast, clean the tile.

Pack the lunches, do the dishes,
Find the socks and grant the wishes.

Bake the cookies, wash the clothes,
Tie the shoes and make the bows.

Wipe the noses, wash the faces,
Stop the fights and check the braces.

Make the snacks and change the diapers,
Call the teachers, pay the pipers.

Make the beds and sweep the floor,
Get the phone and then the door.

Kiss the boo-boo's, feed the pet,
Help with homework, call the vet.

Read the stories, trim the bangs,
Clean the windows, check the fangs.

Laugh at jokes and guess the riddles,
Listen to the horns and fiddles.

Pull the teeth and call the fairy,
Smile a lot and never tarry!

Check for fevers and for pox,
Call the doctor, match the socks.

Set up car pools, do the shopping,
Plan the parties, do the mopping.

Watch kids swim and then play soccer,
Make a meal like Betty Crocker.

Find lost books, fix broken toys,
Wipe the tears and share the joys.

Catch the gerbils, shake the rugs,
Find lost dogs and give out hugs.

A mother's work is never done.
Every day she's on the run.

STILL...

With all a mother has to do,
She finds the time to love us, too!

So we thank you, Mom, for all you say and do.
And we thank you for your love; we love you, too.
It's not often that we show it,
But we want you, Mom, to know it:
Mom, we thank you for your love; we love you, too!

What do you make?

2010-01-25T20:14:00.000-08:00

The dinner guests were sitting around the table discussing life. One man, a CEO, decided to explain the problem with education.

He argued, 'What's a kid going to learn from someone who decided his best option in life was to become a teacher?'

He reminded the other dinner guests what they say about teachers: 'Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach.'

To emphasize his point he said to another guest, 'You're a teacher, Bonnie. Be honest. What do you make?'

Bonnie, who had a reputation for honesty and frankness replied, 'You want to know what I make? (She paused for a second, then began...)

'Well, I make kids work harder than they ever thought they could.

I make a C+ feel like the Congressional Medal of Honor.

I make kids sit through 40 minutes of class time when their parents can't make them sit for 5 without an I Pod, Game Cube or movie rental.

"You want to know what I make." (She paused again and looked at each and every person at the table.)

''I make kids wonder.

I make them question.

I make them apologize and mean it.

I make them have respect and take responsibility for their actions.

I teach them to write and then I make them write. Keyboarding isn't everything.

I make them read, read, read.

I make them show all their work in math. They use their God-given brain, not the man-made calculator.

I make my students from other countries learn everything they need to know in English while preserving their unique cultural identity.

I make my classroom a place where all my students feel safe.

I make my students stand, placing their hand over their heart to say the Pledge of Allegiance to the Flag, One Nation Under God, because we live in the United States of America.

I make them understand that if they use the gifts they were given, work hard, and follow their hearts, they can succeed in life.'

(Bonnie paused one last time, then continued.)

'Then, when people try to judge me by what I make, with me knowing money isn't everything, I can hold my head up high and pay no attention because they are ignorant... You want to know what I make?

I MAKE A DIFFERENCE. What do you make Mr. CEO?'

His jaw dropped, he went silent.

A soldier's quiet time...

2010-01-06T22:03:00.000-08:00

It was quiet that day, the guns, the mortars, and land mines for some reason hadn't been heard.

The young soldier knew it was Sunday, the holiest day of the week.

As he was sitting there, he got out an old deck of cards and laid them out across his bunk.

Just then an army sergeant came in and said, 'Why aren't you with the rest of the platoon?'

The soldier replied, 'I thought I would stay behind and spend some time with the Lord.'

The sergeant said, 'Looks to me like you're going to play cards.'

The soldier said, 'No, sir ... You see, since we are not allowed to have Bibles or other spiritual books in this country, I've decided to talk to the Lord by studying this deck of cards.'

The sergeant asked in disbelief, 'How will you do that?'

'You see the Ace, Sergeant? It reminds me that there is only one God.

The Two represents the two parts of the Bible, Old and New Testaments.

The Three represents the Father, Son, and the Holy Ghost.

The Four stands for the Four Gospels: Matthew, Mark, Luke and John .

The Five is for the five virgins... there were ten, but only five of them were glorified.
The Six is for the six days it took God to create the Heavens and Earth.

The Seven is for the day God rested after making His Creation.

The Eight is for the family of Noah and his wife, their three sons and their wives --- the eight people God spared from the flood that destroyed the Earth.

The Nine is for the lepers that Jesus cleansed of leprosy. He cleansed ten, but nine never thanked Him.

The Ten represents the Ten Commandments that God handed down to Moses on tablets made of stone.

The Jack is a reminder of Satan, one of God's first angels, but he was kicked out of heaven for his sly and wicked ways and is now the joker of eternal hell.

The Queen stands for the Virgin Mary.

The King stands for Jesus, for he is the King of all kings.

When I count the dots on all the cards, I come up with 365 total, one for every day of the year.

There are a total of 52 cards in a deck; each is a week: 52 weeks in a year.

The four suits represent the four seasons: Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter.

Each suit has thirteen cards --- there are exactly thirteen weeks in a quarter.

So when I want to talk to God and thank Him, I just pull out this old deck of cards and they remind me of all that I have to be thankful for.'

The sergeant just stood there. After a minute, with tears in his eyes and pain in his heart, he said, 'Soldier, can I borrow that deck of cards?'

I'm a Mother.

2009-08-26T12:17:00.001-07:00

Just A Mom, You Say?

"I'm just a mom,"

I overheard her say,

With eyes downcast

And a look of dismay.

I turned with a start

And enthusiastically decreed,

"A mom, did you say?

Oh, can it be?"

For a mom is a beacon

Shining so bright,

A landmark by day,

And a light by night.

She listens to stories

Woes and concerns,

With her eyes and her heart,

She quickly discerns.

Questions she asks,

To draw children out.

Building godly ones

Is what she's about.

She gives the gift

Of encouraging words.

With courage and strength

Their souls she girds.

She cheers them up,

When they are down,

And turns sad days,

Completely around.

She says, "You can do it!

I know that you can!"

And develops a boy

Into a man.

She builds self-esteem

Into young hearts.
Jesus Christ's power,

She thus imparts.

"Who am I?"

She hears them say

"You are God's child,

Loved - come what may."

Foundations of love,

Walls capable and strong,

Valued, adored,

They know they belong.

She sows seeds of Scripture,

Day after day.

And sows seeds of prayer,

That help point the way.

She guards information

That goes in their heads

And whispers a prayer

As they're tucked into beds.

She sets an example

Of how they should live,

Of how our Father

Can quickly forgive.

Love, joy and peace,

Is what they see,
Knowing the example she sets,

Is what they will be.

She never gives up

When life gets tough.

And doesn't give in

When kids get rough.

A warrior, a fighter,

She diligently prays,

And then at God's feet

Her children she lays.

"Just a mom," you say?

What an honor bestowed,

A beacon, a builder,

With many seeds sowed.

A listener, encourager,

Diligent too.

A mom, how blessed.

"My hat's off to you!"

I finished my sermon,

Not making a scene,

And transformed before me,

She looked like a queen.

Her eyes now beaming,

She sat tall and erect.

"Excuse me, sir,

I spoke incorrect.

God gave me a job,

that compares to none other,

Esteemed and chosen by Him.

You see, I'm a mother."

--Sharon Jaynes

Being a Great Mom, Raising Great Kids

The LION KING on Broadway

2009-06-23T20:24:00.000-07:00

Last Saturday afternoon, you may have noticed my Facebook status update: Hakuna Matata. That's right, we were headed to THE LION KING live, on stage, Broadway style. Before leaving the house, the tiegkndy watched the animated, class act, Disney version of the Lion King. Ready to go! Broadway: Downtown Sacramento A special day out with just my little ladies.

This photo was taken during our 15 minute intermission. We had great seats, front and center, row D. (Thanks, Gramma.)

Showtime: When the lights finally dimmed, there was a stunning parade of animals. The first ten minutes, we twisted and turned in our seats to see what marvel would enter next: giraffes, zebras, gazelles, lions, wild beasts, elephants, a rhino, and so many others. The cast performers with twirling, diving birds took over the mezzanine. African animals poured into the auditorium along the center aisles, and assembled on stage filling it from side to side and top to bottom. It truly caught me off guard, even though I had some knowledge of what to expect before the curtain raised. The entrance down the aisle was over the top. The girls were smiling from ear to ear. I was left misty-eyed; overwhelmed by the production effort to create this epic film and make it theater; and musical for that matter.

The costumes were brilliant, depicting African culture. Simply amazing, I thought. And the essence of each character was captivated either by his "dominant" trait or stage presence accompanied by African-influenced music. The entire show was phenomenal. It was diverse. It was comic. It was incredibly emotional. SPECTACULAR! "Nants' Ingonyama Bakithi Baba!" "There's more to see than can ever be seen, more to do than can ever be done!" "Til we find our place on a path unwinding in the circle, the circle of life." Simba? Zazu? Has anyone seen the girls? "Oh, I just can't wait to be king."

Lion King Memorabilia

"A ballerina."

2009-06-23T00:02:00.000-07:00

Our Kennedy had her BIG night two weeks ago. For the past month, she has been practicing her songs for the preschool celebration. She was very intent on her singing too. We loved every minute! All of the kids were asked to arrive 15 minutes early; only to be corralled into Room F until "the walk" (procession) began. A sea of proud parents, grandparents, friends and family could be seen hovering with their video recorders and cameras... ready to capture every moment of something said or silly moment. Once the kids were all seated, they began singing their songs for us. It was music to our ears. (Yes, some of us cried.) And there were some kids who didn't let us down and even made us laugh hysterically. Moments to remember. Then it was time to take care of business. Each child was called by name up to the front. When they arrived at the microphone, they were asked, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" As Kennedy came forward, her hat blew off. She gracefully picked it up and placed it back on her head. Atta girl! She proudly walked up to the microphone and was ready to answer her question. Kennedy, what do you want to be when you grow up? She softly said, "A ballerina." We all applauded. She happily took her diploma and returned to her seat. Some of the other children said that they wanted to be a policeman, an animal doctor, a soccer player... BUT, the one that got the thumbs-up cheer was the little girl who said she wanted to be a ROCKSTAR when she "growd" up. It was all so cute. Afterwards, we celebrated with refreshments and cupcakes.

Kennedy, we are so proud to be your Mommy and Daddy.

Introducing the Class of 2022!

Kennedy's Preschool Celebration Songs

2009-06-22T21:36:00.000-07:00

(Melody: Yankee Doodle)

Welcome, welcome everyone

To our celebration

We are so proud of this day

It's our graduation

Friends and family hear us roar

For our work is done

Next year we will all go off

To Kindergarten.

(Melody: I've Been Working on the Railroad)

I've been going to my preschool

All the whole year long

I've been going to my preschool

And I've learned a lot of songs

I can count and say my letters

I know all my colors too

I've been going to my preschool

All the whole year through

Graduation day, graduation day

Graduation day is finally here

Graduation day, graduation day

Graduation day is finally here.

(Melody: Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes)

Learned my letters ABC-ABC

Learned my numbers 123-123

I can even write my name with ease

Aren't you very proud of me

Proud of me

Kindergarten here we come

Here we come

Kindergarten here we come

Here we come

So long preschool

It's been fun

Kindergarten here we come

Here we come!

(Video of Kennedy singing her graduation song(s) coming soon. If I am lucky.)

I teach.

2009-06-13T19:44:00.001-07:00

I teach.

I am an open blossom

And my students are the bees.

With each landing, they collect some dust

And leave some off on me.

The bees fly away and are forever changed.

Bees are my students,

And I am a blossom, open.

I teach.

Happy Mother's Day... to me... to YOU!

2009-05-10T05:43:00.000-07:00

My friend, Carol, sent me the following video from CNNBC: "Sharleen Young Announced as 2009 Mother of the Year."

Watch it here:

(Click on this address link below:)
http://news.cnnbcvideo.com/?nid=Tc5D_.Ippwma8ju0jqgCTTQ2MTM3NjU-&referred_by=16603982-7Te_egx

Happy Mother's Day... to me! ... to YOU!

Never judge a book by its cover

2009-04-15T20:52:00.000-07:00

I so wanted to share this video of Susan Boyle. She wowed the judges with her performance in the auditions for Britain's Got Talent, singing I dreamed a dream from Les Miserables. A beautiful moment. Love this! Yay, for her. I dare you not to cry.

Click here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY

Here are the Lyrics:

I dreamed a dream in time gone by
When hope was high
And life worth living
I dreamed that love would never die
I dreamed that God would be forgiving.

Then I was young and unafraid
And dreams were made and used
And wasted
There was no ransom to be paid
No song unsung
No wine untasted.

But the tigers come at night
With their voices soft as thunder
As they tear your hope apart
As they turn your dream to shame.

And still I dream he'll come to me
That we will live the years together
But there are dreams that cannot be
And there are storms
We cannot weather...

I had a dream my life would be
So different from this hell
I'm living so different now from what it seemed
Now life has killed
The dream I dreamed.

Painting of Jesus

2009-04-14T20:33:00.000-07:00

This is simply remarkable. The video is about 4 minutes long. But it is a MUST WATCH ALL the way to the end. I did not see this one coming. Who would have thought throwing paint would depict a talented work of art? A God given gift? I think so. Unbelieveable.

Happy St. Patrick's Day

2009-03-17T21:33:00.000-07:00

Here's to being a "pinch" Irish

O'Kennedy and O'Tiegan

Kennedy is celebrating the leprechaun's birthday with her school friends. Not lucky, Just cute! Tiegan made this St. Patrick project @ Kindergarten. Never thought I would actually be encouraging grass growing and watering in the house. O'Braden

Love these kids to the moon and back!

Papa Bill says I am 1/12 Irish. Erin Go Braugh!

This "wearing of the green" holiday is full of fun, mystery and lots of messes! For the past few days (between home and stories from the girls' school), Patrick, the leprechaun has: tipped chairs, forgotten to clean-up his toys, left his green foot prints everywhere, and lost his shoes. The kids were determined to find this mischievous little guy. No such luck! Their curiousity was detered when they found a note next to the chocolate gold coins he left. "Time to move on. Thanks for cleaning up the toys, fixing all the chairs, and finding my shoes! It's been fun!"

"For each petal on the shamrock brings a wish your way: Good health, good luck and happiness for today and every day." - Irish blessing

Happy St. Patrick's Day and Happy 30th Anniversary, Mom and Dad! We love you, Gramma Jackie and Papa Bill!

Denice makes me laugh!

2009-03-10T20:16:00.000-07:00

Is anyone else exasperated with hearing the "PC" phrase, "Tough Economic Times?" Albeit fact, the mere mention and constant overuse is almost bordering on abuse to the ol' ears. Please take a minute to read this eloquently written blog post.

http://sac4kids.com/blog/2009/03/08/tough-economic-times/

Just playin'

2009-02-28T16:38:00.000-08:00

Note to self: A child's work is PLAY! When I'm building in the block room,
Please don't say, "I'm just playing."
For, you see, I'm learning as I play
About balance and shapes.
When I'm getting all dressed up,
Setting the table, caring for the babies,
Don't get the idea I'm "just playing."
I may be a mother or a father someday.
When you see me up to my elbows in paint,
Or standing at an easel, or molding and shaping clay,
Please don't let me hear you say, "He's just playing"
For you see, I'm learning as I play.
I'm expressing myself and being creative.
I may be an artist or an inventor someday.
When you see me sitting in a chair "Reading" to an imaginary audience,
Please don't laugh and think, "I'm just playing."
For, you see, I'm learning as I play.
I may be a teacher someday.
When you see me combing the bushes for bugs,
Or packing my pockets with choice things I find,
Don't pass it off as "just playing."
For, you see, I'm learning as I play.
I may be a scientist someday.
When you see me engrossed in a puzzle,
Or "plaything" at my school,
Please don't feel the time is wasted in "play."
For, you see, I'm learning as I play.
I'm learning to solve problems and concentrate.
I may be in business someday.
When you see me cooking or tasting foods,
Please don't think that because I enjoy it, it is just "play."
For, you see, I'm learning as I play.
I'm learning how my body works.
I may be a doctor, nurse, or athlete someday.
When you ask me what I've done at school today,
And I say "I played,"
Please don't misunderstand me.
For, you see, I'm learning as I play.
I'm learning to be successful in work.
I'm preparing for tomorrow.
Today, I'm a child and my work is play.

Tiegan's Friday morning conversation...

2009-02-22T20:30:00.000-08:00

Tiegan: (6:30a.m. upon waking up) I need to pee.

Mommy: Okay, then you better get in there. I'll start making your breakfast.

Tiegan: (excusing herself from the breakfast table) I have to go poop now.

Mommy: Um, okay... go ahead... take care of your business.

Tiegan: (7:30a.m. before heading out of the door) Mom, I have to pee one more time.

Mommy: Really? Okay, then you better go before we leave for school.

Tiegan: (grimacing) Guess what, Mom? THAT is an A-B-A pattern.

Mommy: (Laughing hysterically! Because I KNEW EXACTLY what she was referring too) You are so right!

Can you guess what they are working on in math? As I laughed and hugged my girl... I realized how important it was for me to take in THIS wonderful moment with her! We laughed all the way to school. She asked me not to tell her teacher this story/conversation. (She didn't say anything about sharing it with you, and you, and you.) Isn't learning great!

Here is a recent picture of my silly girl. Her Kindergarten class wore their pajamas on Friday for spirit day!

Mother of the year award?

2009-02-22T20:20:00.000-08:00

Kennedy was invited to Raeya's 4th birthday party yesterday. I decided to take Kennedy with me to pick out the birthday gift. On the drive to the gift store, we talked about who we were there to buy a gift for. (It was my attempt to mentally prepare her to avoid any meltdowns. I am not one of those mother's who buys the kids something everytime we go into a store.)

Happy and excited to spend the day with her friends, she grabbed my hand and we skipped our way into the store. After about 30 minutes, she finally made a decision on which gift she wanted to buy. So we headed toward to the cashier. She happily put her items on the counter. Whew! Then out of the corner of her eye, she spotted an Ariel phone that she wanted. Of course, I quickly reminded her that we were there to buy Raeya's gift. In my motherly voice, I asked her to give the nice lady the toy phone, so that we could pay for the "other" stuff. I could see her eyes start to tear up, but she did as I asked her to do. We walked out holding hands. As we left, I watched the passerby's faces. Most looked at Kennedy and could see that she was sad. They passed me without saying a thing, just a pouty lip as if they felt sorry for the poor girl. And all I could think was, what about the poor mother who is trying to teach her child the value of money, appreciate giving to others, etc.? Next time, I am going to wear a sign that says, "Mother of the year!"

How many of you would have given in and bought "it" anyway?

(By the way, she had a blast @ the "princess" party!)

Braden's 1st haircut

2009-02-08T17:24:00.000-08:00

Look @ the new haircut Mommy gave me.

Mommy's secret crush finally gets his FIRST haircut. This was a long time a comin'. I had to come to terms with the possibility of losing his baby curls. The whole process lasted two minutes from start to finish. Whew! And he's still my handsome secret crush.

2009-02-06T22:26:00.001-08:00

I have been tagged on Facebook by my friend, Aprill. So I thought I would also share this with all of my blogger friends and family.

Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 25 random things, facts, habits or goals about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know more about you.

Here goes... enjoy!

1. I am the oldest of six brothers and sisters.
2. I am a retired military brat. Go, Air Force!
3. I hesitate to admit this one… Old enough to probably know better, I believed that our family German Shepherd could actually jump on a pogo-stick. Can you say, GULLIBLE? Thanks, Dad!
4. I learned to double-dutch in the 5th grade. I can still hold my own with my 6th grade class/students today. I have the “COOL” teacher factor, now.
5. I have never broken a single bone in my body, but I have bruised a bone and pulled a rib from my vertebrae. OUCH!
6. I twirled the baton in middle school; won States and Western Regionals.
7. I had my first child @ 32.
8. Being a mom has made me a better teacher. And being a teacher has made me a better mom. Figuratively speaking, I SEE things through DIFFERENT eyes.
9. German police stopped me because I was riding my bicycle on the sidewalk. I guess that is not allowed in Bonn.
10. I got out of a “ticket” for doing a California stop because I was brutally honest.
11. I still cannot prove why a circle is a circle. Uh… because my Kindergarten teacher taught me so? Geometry did not bring out my best!
12. I survived a 360 on the freeway! And NO, I was not the driver.
13. My longest childhood friendship has endured 31 years of great memories.
14. I hope to see all seven wonders of the world one day!
15. One day, on my list of Mommy things to do… is to take all of my children to my birth place.
16. If there is one weather element I could live without, it would be the wind. And I do not like to feel cold.
17. I CRY! I cry over other people’s happiness. I cry when any of my kids make me proud. I cry over movies. I cry when I cut up an onion.
18. People often ask me if we are done having children. Can’t say yes or no. Hmmm, what does that mean? Seriously though, I am one of those mother’s who gets VERY SICK during pregnancy. And although it is temporary… it scares me. It is probably a good thing, otherwise, I would probably have a baseball team.
19. I want a smartboard like Aprill.
20. Originally, in my “professional student” college days, I pursued a career in medicine to become a pediatrician.
21. I have no regrets…
22. I hope to write a children’s book one day … illustrated by Karin Schwettmann, my baby sister. (She is the artist in the family.)
23. I look @ life as the “glass is half full.”
24. I LOVE PHOTOGRAPHY! I have about two dozen pictures from MY childhood. My children, on the other hand, have about two million photo memories @ this point and they are only 5, 4, and 1. Do you think there is any relativity to why I capture every moment on film?
25. Whew… this was an eye-opener. Not an easy task to write about me.

Please do share a few random things about you!

Fairytale Town

2009-01-18T20:33:00.000-08:00

Spending the day at Fairytale Town is the BEST $4.50 you will ever spend. The kids literally could have stayed 'til the cow jumped o'r the moon. I love watching the kids experience the magic and fun of being a kid. It truly is a family friendly place! They have turned our fairytale stories that we grew up reading into a playground.

At the Humpty Dumpty Gate...

On the crooked mile... hiding out!

"To fetch a pail of water... Jack and Jill"

Face painting

Fairytale town has over two acres of ENCHANTMENT and FUN! It is a nonprofit family park with more than twenty five, bright, dimensional child-sized play sets based on favorite fairytales and nursery rhymes. These give young children a backdrop to act out their favorite stories, to encourage creative discovery, and to exercise on child-friendly slides throughout the lush grounds. A family of friendly animals and children's gardens nestle in this safe and colorful place. Their mission is to promote the imagination, creativity and education of children.

P.S. Make it a full day... bring a picnic lunch and afterwards feed the ducks!

I am luving Tiegan's fonetik kidriting!

2009-01-01T20:43:00.000-08:00

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I resolve to make 2009 matter!

2009-01-01T00:55:00.000-08:00

Isaiah 9:6

2008-12-28T22:28:00.001-08:00

"For unto us a child is born..."(Picture above taken on Pebble Creek's street of lights. The kids look forward to viewing the "Christmas lights" every year.)

From Handel's Messiah... one of my absolute favorite piece in Messiah.

Taking a moment to reflect on our Saviour's birth and the reason for THIS season.

Wishing you a very Merry CHRISTmas

2008-12-25T22:10:00.000-08:00

Christmas countdown and memories

2008-12-24T21:55:00.000-08:00

Let the countdown begin. How many days until Christmas? Counting our blessings one by one. Tieg holding on to her princess art set. Happy mama Brae playing with his new train table set. You can't see it but the girls are dancing on their Yo Gabba Gabba! dance mat. Braden loves his lego dump truck.

Tiegan decorating sugar cookies.

Aww, my favorite boys!

Kennedy's Christmas Program

2008-12-22T21:28:00.000-08:00

The artist behind this amazing free-handed sketch and painted backdrop is one of Kennedy's teachers. I watched it unfold into this scene right before my eyes.

This year's Christmas song selection was Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, Dreidel, Frosty the Snowman, and Jingle Bells. Kennedy loves singing with her friends. There were a few characters in the show that made us laugh SO HARD our eyes watered. Although it was VERY entertaining, we were just thankful it wasn't our kid THIS time. Right, Jen?
They practiced very hard and did a beautiful job. Take a bow or curtsy... Kennedy made sure to give her wish list to Santa this year!

Tiegan's Christmas Program

2008-12-19T21:19:00.000-08:00

Last Friday was a fun day @ Kindergarten for Miss Tiegan.

Look closely... our girl is in the front shaking her maraca bootie while singing "I want to wish you a Merry Christmas/Feliz Navidad." We have a little performer on our hands. She made us very proud!

Back @ the classroom, she participated in a "musical" book exchange. The teacher played Christmas music and when it stopped the last student holding the wrapped book... got to keep it! Great idea and oh, what fun. Jolly Old Santa Claus was the book she was gifted. Before the day was over, all the Kindergarteners took a walking field trip to bring some Christmas cheer to the ladies and gentlemen at the neighborhood assisted living home. Tiegan was awe struck by the number of elderly people grouped together in ONE significant place. But if you could have seen their faces while the children sang their Christmas carols, it would have warmed your heart. Special Christmas memories.

"You can't catch me..."

2008-12-18T21:44:00.000-08:00

I'm the Gingerbread Girl!

Tiegan's Kindergarten class has spent a couple of weeks reading different renditions of the "Gingerbread Man" by various authors. And to add some classroom realia, her teacher had the children make their own gingerbread houses. Tieg was so excited! I thought it would be neat to put a little twist into it and share with her the newest sequel... "The Gingerbread Girl." So we went to the library and checked it out. Cute story! And for her class party, we baked some gingerbread cookies. The kids loved 'em. And her teacher was thrilled! Kudos for Tiegan!

Little Divas

2008-12-09T20:43:00.000-08:00

Girls just wanna have fun!

Aren't these little divas the C-U-T-E-S-T?

WOW!

2008-11-17T20:33:00.000-08:00

Wow! Gas is $1.99 a gallon. I filled up for $30 tonight! I'm gonna enjoy it while it lasts. (It has already gone down another 50 cents now.)

Trampoline fun

2008-11-11T20:22:00.000-08:00

Kennedy was excited to share her new birthday trampoline with her brother and sister tonight. So, after bath time, we decided to set it up in our livingroom and let the kids jump 'til their hearts were content! (Real intention... to tire them out.) Boy, did they JUMP, LAUGH, and HAVE FUN! (Oh and YES, we are trying to see how much STUFF we can fit into our one little livingroom. Eventually, it will be moved out to the garage that we are slowly turning into a game room for the kids.)

Now they are all sweaty and in need of another bath. Didn't think that one out logically. What is a mom to do?

"He's so handsome."

2008-11-10T07:30:00.000-08:00

Who says Baby #3 doesn't get photographed?

I followed this little guy around to capture these fun memories.

His sisters think he is so handsome.

Braden: one years old

(Candid and posey pictures taken at our neighborhood park, Mansion Oaks Park.)

Here's FINNEY

2008-11-09T21:22:00.000-08:00

Miss Kennedy would like to introduce you to her new birthday betta fish. She named him Finney. She makes sure he is fed three times a day. What a responsible girl!

Princess Cinderkennedy is F-O-U-R!

2008-11-09T19:31:00.000-08:00

Kennedy counted down the days until her 4th birthday. She had a very fun-filled special day with family, friends, gymnastics, AND Disney on Ice. Her request was to have a "Princess Ariel" birthday party at TRICKS gymnastics. Wish granted. Seeing the smile on her face was worth weathering the RAIN.

Kristin, her gymnastic coach, was more than wonderful. The kids were happy, the party was moving along, the adults were socializing, and I got to sit back and take pictures. All of Kennedy's little friends stretched, danced, played follow the leader, balanced, climbed, swung, bounced, tumbled, trampolined, etc. for the FIRST hour of the party. Shortly afterwards, we moved into the party room. There were cupcakes for all the kids and B-I-G kids to decorate. Yum... Kennedy was so excited!

Birthday girl was the leader.

Below are a few Disney on Ice snapshots from the morning show.

Happy birthday, sweet girl! We love you!

One smart kid coming right up

2008-11-06T18:54:00.000-08:00

My sister-in-law, Lisa, e-mailed me tonight with my nephew Austin's first trimester progress report. Had to share this with someone.

"This screen shows a summary of student scores for their current classes and any assignments they have missed. Please note that there may be considerable delay in teachers entering scores."

Student Progress Summary

Student: Austin, 6th Grade

You GO, Austin! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU! Woot-woo! Keep up the good work! Auntie's doing the HAPPY DANCE!

Dirt cheap and civil duty

2008-11-04T07:30:00.000-08:00

Never thought I would ever hear Americans say, "Gas is DIRT CHEAP right now. $2.27 a gallon." Remember when gasoline was only 95 cents a gallon? My civil duty is done.

Trick or Treat

2008-10-31T20:16:00.000-07:00

The girls painted and crafted their pumpkins (from the pumpkin patch) into Mr. Jack-O-Lanterns.

Our little trick-o-treaters...

Princess Briarkennedy

Princess CindertieganThankfully, the rain held off so that we could get in a good hour and a half of trick or treating.Braden was a dalmation doggie. YAY, he wore his costume without any fussing. AND he even let me brown his nose. (Might not be so lucky next year.)Original Post: October 5, 2008

"You're the B-E-S-T-E-S-T Mommy"
Finding Halloween costumes for the kids was on our "things to do" list this weekend. For the past two days, we have walked many stores and spent many hours taking mental notes to several costume "possibilities." Can you guess what the kids are going to be this Halloween Night?

Girls ' costumes... (Not in any specific order)

1. Supergirl

2. Minnie Mouse

3. Kitty Cat

4. Flower

5. Butterfly

6. 50's Gal

7. Flapper Girl

8. Cheerleader

9. Princesses

10. Pumpkin

Boys costumes...

1. Peter Pan

2. Lion

3. Pirate

4. Scarecrow

5. Spider

6. Lion

7. Doggie

8. Turtle

9. Monkey

10. Giraffe

HINT: At the end of the day... The girls tell me... "You're the B-E-S-T-E-S-T Mommy!"

Bishop's Pumpkin Farm

2008-10-28T20:11:00.000-07:00

Last Friday, I hired a substitute for my class so that I could MAKE A MEMORY with Tiegan on her first Kindergarten field trip. We (Kennedy, Braden, and Gramma Lynda too) tagged along with Tieg's "GECKO" class for a fun day at Bishop's Pumpkin Farm. Her teacher is SO AWESOME! She is well-organized, CREATIVE, and not afraid to brave an out of the classroom learning experience with 20+ little people. (The ratio was almost 3:1. That is... three mommies/grammas to every ONE child. A teacher's dream.) The kids were excited to say the least. For most of them, it was also their first time riding on a school bus; which, I might add, IS A BIG DEAL. (We/I followed behind Tiegan's bus. I'm not THAT crazy.) Check out the class made, eclectic designs of the kids' G-E-C-K-O t-shirts. Here are some picture memories and a little history about the pumpkin patch. A little "Bishop's" history.

The farm which is now Bishop's was a Wild Rose Dairy in the first half of the 20th century and many of the barns from this busy dairy remain today. By 1972, the farm had fallen into disrepair. Bill and Sandy Bishop were attracted to the old barns and the large poplar trees lining the road. They were able to purchase 40 acres and the farmstead. In 1973, Sandy planted about an acre of pumpkins in a small field in front of the house and invited the local schools to come out on field trips. Sandy had been a teacher and she knew how much kids could learn from visiting a real farm. The pumpkins would just be an excuse to get the kids out.

The field trips proved popular and Bill and Sandy soon learned that many of the kids wanted to bring their families back on the weekends. More and bigger pumpkins were planted the following year and customers did indeed start showing up on the weekends. Word was also getting around about the pumpkin pies that Sandy was baking in her kitchen. An old farm wagon was put into service for hayrides and the kids' ponies were saddled and tied to a tree for self-service pony rides.

Many things have changed over the years. Food service started with popcorn and later hot dogs in the late 1970's. The Bakery was added in 1985 and the train in 1991. More recent additions such as Coyote Mountain and Corn Maze have been added since Bill and Sandy's son Wayne and his wife, Ann returned to the farm in 1995. (You can also enjoy a "Weeland" farm animal petting zoo, pig races, three levels of fun in the Tree House, and Farmer Bill's barn slides.)

Today the Bishop's plant about 50 acres of pumpkins for the enjoyment of over 100,000 visitors each fall. Although, none of the Bishop's ever envisioned the Pumpkin Farm growing to its present size, they are still thrilled to be able to make a living in a way that is so uplifting to other families, as well as, their own.

I think the Bishop's don't feel that they have had a good harvest unless every family leaves with smiles on their faces, pleasant farm memories in their heads, AND A LITTLE DIRT IN THEIR SHOES! We definitely did!

She's gone...

2008-10-19T20:05:00.000-07:00

...back home to Bonn, Germany to finish her last two years of college.

I hate good-byes! Hurry back, Karin. We miss you already!

Love you, Brae

2008-10-11T19:11:00.000-07:00

I think God designed our little babies PERFECTLY! I love Braden's tipsy waddle walk, kissable cheeks, wittle button nose, cute dimply heinie, chubby fingers and toes, baby talk, puppy dog eyes, arms reaching up asking to be held...EVERYTHING! (Even the not so happy moments... when he just wants to cuddle. He is teething something fierce right now... "I know, buddy... it HURTS.") He is so curious about his world right now! Much of what he does is a first time experience. To watch him learn new things, play and keep up with his sisters, test the waters, overcome obstacles, or simply enjoy the little things makes me smile. The last picture above I captured tonight when he thought I wasn't looking. "Supposed to sit in your silly, sing-a-long, music chair, Brae." Of course, it is more fun to stand on. Love you, son!

Rules for Teachers (1872)

2008-10-05T18:27:00.000-07:00

1. Teachers each day will fill lamps, and clean chimneys.

2. Each teacher will bring a bucket of water and a scuttle of coal for the day's session.

3. Make your pens carefully. You may whittle nibs to the individual taste of the pupils.

4. Men teachers may take one evening each week for courting purposes, or two evenings a week if they go to church regularly.

5. After ten hours in school, the teacher may spend the remaining time reading the Bible or other good books.

6. Women teachers who marry or engage in umseemly conduct will be dismissed.

7. Every teacher should lay aside from each pay a goodly sum of his earnings for his benefit during his declining years so that he will not become a burden on society.

8. Any teacher who smokes, uses liquor in any form, frequents pool or public halls, or gets shaved in a barber shop will give good reason to suspect his worth, intention, integrity, and honesty.

9. The teacher who performs his labor faithfully and without fault for five years will be given an increase of twenty-five cents per week in his pay, providing the Board of Education approves.

We've come a long ways from the one room schoolhouses. Any thoughts?

TRICKS gymnastics

2008-10-04T20:43:00.000-07:00

The girls LOVED gymnastics today!

TRICKS... (over, under, on, across, through...)

1. warm-up, stretching, jumping, hopping, dancing to music

2. climbing, jumping, balancing

3. trampoline

4. bounce house, sliding

5. floor tumbling, spring boards, balance beams, swing

Bike riding

2008-10-03T20:40:00.000-07:00

Tiegan crashes... Visiting Gramma Lynda's house. Getting in our bike ride before the storm clouds rolled in. Yay, RAIN!

AMEN!

2008-09-03T19:50:00.000-07:00

Zoei Toh is 2 years and 8 months old. She is absolutely ADORABLE singing the Lord's Prayer. Makes me smile!

She's here!

2008-09-02T23:39:00.000-07:00

Fifteen hour flight and a little jet lagged... but SHE IS HERE!

California State Fair

2008-08-26T19:26:00.001-07:00

HOT, HOT, HOT... but FUN, FUN, FUN

My heart...

2008-08-22T20:55:00.000-07:00

It has been a very busy week in our household. As most of you already know... I am returning back to the classroom on September 2nd. I have been running back and forth this week trying to get my room conducive to learning and ready for my students. While I was out on parental leave, I chose to store ALL of my teacher stuff here at home. I finally made my way back with it all. (Byron was so happy to see it go. What is it with men and their garages?) Nevertheless, my room is in order, looks great, as well as, walls/bulletin boards student friendly! Ahhh, it feels so good! And next week begins teacher training's, workshops, professional development hours, presentations, etc... Life is good!

In the same sense, we have officially sent our firstborn off to Kindergarten this week. I am so grateful that I was able to send her off and get her school year off to a great start. She loves school. She likes her teacher. The day before the first day of Kindergarten, her teacher opened her classroom doors for what they call MEET THE TEACHER. Tiegan came home eager to go back to Kinder. Little did she know that the next day, I was not going to go through the classroom doors with her. She figured it out really quickly though. It was a hard thing to do but if Tiegan was going to bond with her teacher she needed to do it sooner rather than later. (I know that... My head tells me one thing, but my heart feels another. It is so different when the student is your own child! Honestly, it was VERY HARD for me.) She didn't cry. She just put her head down and walked into class. She never really expressed to me any nervousness or anxiety. (I was a little bit sad.) Then after the second official day of Kinder, she quietly scooted up close to me and said...

Tiegan: "Mom, I didn't know you were going to be waiting right outside for me when school was over."
Mommy: "Of course, I wanted to hear how your day went with your new friends and teacher."
Tiegan: (wiping her eyes) "You're so nice, Mom. I love you!"
Mommy: (Relieved... THERE... she got it out.) "I love you to the moon and back."

She seemed okay, until she started talking about it and then her eyes welled up with tears. That's my girl. (She is so like her Mommy... I think I am okay too until I talk about it out loud. Then I am so consumed.) But we both feel better now. This growing up business is tough sometimes.

(Continue on to the next two blogs for more on her first week in Kindergarten.)

She's hit the ground running

2008-08-21T19:05:00.001-07:00

So PROUD of this girl! She's only been in Kindergarten FOUR days. Wasting no time learning to read her sight words in simple sentences. Beautiful.

First day of Kindergarten

2008-08-18T19:22:00.001-07:00

Miss Tieg is off to Kindergarten. Our litte girl is approaching another milestone in her precious life. I'm excited, she's excited! BUT... I have very mixed feeling about this growing up stuff. August 18, 2008: MEET THE TEACHER DAY.

This was a "trial run" for the new AM/PM Kinder's. Most of the children looked happy and excited to be at Kindergarten. There were some who were nervous; understandable and to be expected. Tiegan was so ready to go. She was more of the "observer" the first day.
Her teacher happily welcomed all of her new friends with open arms. Today's purpose: MEET THE TEACHER DAY! We were asked to play a little scavenger hunt game to locate certain areas important to the kids' school day. Tiegan loved storytime. The selected book of the day was, DON'T EAT THE TEACHER. All the children were engaged and you could hear them giggling throughout the story. After storytime, there was time to work on fine motor skills; practice writing names, alphabet, etc. and drawing works of art. (I think this day is really for the parents.)

August 19, 2008: FIRST DAY OF KINDERGARTEN.

I thought for sure she was going to fall over backwards with her big ol’ backpack on! Cute... cute!

Love this girl so much it hurts!

Ready for Kindergarten.

Come on, Mom... I have new friends to make and LOTS to learn.

Proud to sport her new PRINCESS lunch box.

Principal on crosswalk duty!

Her backpack is bigger than she is. Cute as ever...Love this memory!

Can you find her signature? (It's not easy to read... she used a pink marker... imagine that?)

Bell rings and kids are to stand on the yellow line.

(Now she wants to be first in line.)

Gave me a kiss and off she goes... "Bye, Mom. Have a good day. See you later."

Star Board: Her teacher and family.

Called up to get materials for the classroom scavenger hunt.

Good listener.

Kindergarten is hard work!

(But someone has to do it.)Artist in the works.The next MONET... PICASSO?

Her teacher asked her to take a picture outside on the playground equipment.

What a doll!

Learn something new everyday!

Having fun on the Kinder playground.

What these pictures do not depict is that the first day of Kindergarten is hard on mommas; especially this mama. Five years. Somehow they flew by. I sit here with tears in my eyes BUT I smile through the tears, because she is happy. Just how I hoped she would be. Isn’t that how parenting is supposed to go? Help them grow, nurture them, love them, teach them... all to let them flourish in other environments? This is heartbreaking. And its only Kindergarten. (Three cheers for Mom for not letting her see me cry! I think I got it all out!) She loves Kindergarten. This is going to be an awesome school year! GO, Tiegan! Mommy and Daddy are so PROUD of you little girl!

(And to think I have to do this again next year for Miss Kennedy. Whew! Does this get any easier?)

Princess Cindertiegan

2008-08-16T20:18:00.000-07:00

Happy 5th Birthday, Tieg!

Guess where Cindertiegan wanted to go?

Today, we had a small family Cindertiegan birthday party to celebrate her.

SHE...

* is one of our Cinderellas who always "thinks" PINK!
* can usually be found playing "dress-up" with her favorite Cinderkennedy.
* is the most beautiful girl inside and out.
* loves to sing and dance, just like her Daddy.
* is ready to go to Kindergarten!
* giggles hyterically when we read her newest favorite book, It's Time to Dance.
* likes to explore and be outdoors.
* hams it up for pictures.
* loves to drink W-A-T-E-R!
* is our performing arts child.
* gets excited when her favorite Brae learns something new.

* loves to wear her hair in pig tails.
* makes us PROUD.
* is SO BLESSED to have FAMILY that LOVES her SO MUCH!

When I see my daughters...

2008-08-12T22:09:00.000-07:00

Our B-I-G girl, Tiegan was born five years ago today. Daddy was inspired to write this song after her birth. And has since dedicated this song to both of his girls. It makes my heart sing!

Guitar song: ... I Believe

Creative Brilliance?

2008-08-12T19:23:00.000-07:00

Entertaining. Click on link address below, sit back, and watch the "animator" vs. "animation."

Do you think Alan Becker has a lot of time on his hands?

Click here: http://fc01.deviantart.com/fs13/f/2007/077/2/e/Animator_vs__Animation_by_alanbecker.swf
(Thanks, Aprill for passing this on to me! Good stuff...)

She's coming...

2008-08-10T21:56:00.001-07:00

Karin, my younger sister (turned 21 in May), took a trip last summer to Tanzania, Africa. She's quite the international traveler. Here are a few pictures to showcase her time in Africa.

Tanzania sunset... Gorgeous!

Safari

These doll babies are her adopted niece and nephew.

This is one of my favorite pictures of her painting this mural at one of the many African orphanages.

She's coming... Cannot wait! Dicke, ich liebe dich.

Look who just turned F-O-U-R

2008-08-09T23:33:00.001-07:00

Today, we celebrated our Riley's 4th birthday! We had so much fun; BBQ-ing, swimming, hangin' out, playing with her new toys, etc.! Her talented Mommy, Lisa, even made her a homemade princess castle cake. Happy Birthday, Miss Riley! We love you baby doll!

Look at that face! It has yummy cake written all over it!

08-08-08 (Lucky number 8) Beijing Opening Ceremony: Parade of Nations

2008-08-08T23:38:00.000-07:00

"One World One Dream" fully reflects the essence and the universal values of the Olympic spirit -- Unity, Friendship, Progress, Harmony, Participation and Dream. It expresses the common wishes of people all over the world, inspired by the Olympic ideals, to strive for a bright future of Mankind.

(All differences, controversial politics and/or boycotts aside to cheer on our athletes in the biggest sporting event in the world.)

There are just NO words. These still images of the 2008 Olympic opening ceremony say it all.

...the magnitude of this event, the ancient and modern images of China, the precision, the complexities, the costumes, the art, the colors, the lights, the culture, the sounds, the fireworks, the artists, the engineering...

Spectacular, amazing, overwhelming, glorious, breath-taking, stunning, Wow!

(London has its work cut out for them in 2012.)

GO, TEAM U.S.A.

Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk

2008-08-06T21:07:00.000-07:00

Last year marked the centennial anniversary of our very own, California's, Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk; oceanfront amusement park. This trip was our last planned summer get-away... destination Pacific Coast, better know as the

B-E-A-C-H.

Saturday, August 2nd @ 7:30p.m.: We decided to break-up our driving hours on the road. Plan A... So our family car exodus to Southern, California began shortly before what would have normally been their bedtime; with hopes of all three kiddos falling asleep for most of the drive down. And what a nice, quiet, peaceful car ride it was. The flip-side to Plan A was... once we got to our hotel at the Doubltree in San Jose, the kids got their second wind. Plan B... okay, lets make them more tired. Are there rules for jumping on hotel beds? (My justification: Hey, we're on vacation. There are no rules.) Perfect... about an hour later, they were

O-U-T!

Sunday, August 3rd: Time in SANTA CRUZ. (My brother, Tim, and sister-in-law, Lisa, plus four joined us on this trip too.) Off to the beach we all went. Standing ankle-deep in the Pacific Ocean took some getting use too. It was rather numbing and ICE COLD! Brrrr... But that did not stop any of the kids (or their cousins) from swimming in the salty ocean. We spent HOURS on the beach... Caitlyn, Tiegan, Riley, and Kennedy had a blast playing, digging, and molding in the sand. Tiegan and Kennedy eventually figured out how to fight against the incoming tides. Although they were actually standing still, Tiegan was fascinated by the notion that she was "moving" as the tide was going back out. Mind fakes are great. Austin and Bryce spent a good portion of the time looking for sand crabs and other sea life. They did, however, find what I call a sucker fish or cleaner fish. (See photo below.) Pretty exciting! Good job, boys! Boys can be so adventurous. And it wasn't long before Bryce caught sight of some seaweed and brought it ashore. (See photo below.) Braden even dug his little chubby toes in the wet sand and got his first shocking feel of "pacific" water. Loved it! Had a blast on the B-E-A-C-H!

Eventually, the Boardwalk lights and sounds caught the kids' attention. "Mommy, can we get some vanilla ice cream?" "Daddy, can we buy some tickets?" "Auntie, I want to go on this boat ride." "Uncle, will you go on the "Tsunami" with me?" With pockets full of tickets... let the carnival/arcade fun begin! Seeing the smiles on the kids' faces was sure indication that they were happy. We spent the second half of our day jumping from one kiddie ride to the next. The Boardwalk was packed with hundreds of "carni" diehards.

It wasn't long before the kids and the B-I-G kids worked up a healthy appetite. Ahh, a sit down dinner near the Pier; half racks of baby-back ribs, coconut prawns, seafood, clam chowder soup, mac 'n cheese, fries, fresh fruit. After stuffing ourselves, we slowly ventured on down the Pier to walk off our dinner. Barks of sea lions could be heard. (Some were napping. See photo below.) Standing on the Pier, you could see the most amazing view of the Pacific Ocean, right against the horizon. There were a few surfers and sail boats soaking in the last bit of sunlight.

A very fun-filled day! Great memories... Can't wait to do it again. (Still recovering from vacation rebound.) Enjoy our pictures...

Overnight stay in our hotel... I want to jump on the bed too.

Contemplating... should we get in the freezing cold water?

Auntie Lisa on lifeguard duty! Sweet sisters! My girl! Boys will be boys! Bryce found seaweed. Look closely... there is a sucker fish in there.

Our tired girl, Kennedy... too much fun?

Daddy (Uncle Tim) and his beautiful girls.

Not too sure about the texture of the wet sand. Aren't those the cutest little toes?

Kiddie rides.

Austin: "Look, no hands!"

Barking (napping) sea lions on the Pier.

Mommy's sun-kissed Brae...

View of Santa Cruz' Beach Boardwalk from the Pier.

Miles of Pacific Ocean.The B-I-G kids.

Hug your children tight

2008-08-06T10:31:00.000-07:00

A beautiful family picture of the Chapman's

(A follow-up from my "May 21st" email.)

Here is the Good Morning America interview I saw this morning of the Chapman Family; overcoming a family tragedy- grieving, forgiving, and living through the accidental loss of their Cinderella, Maria Sue, adopted daughter from China. (Grab a Kleenex.)

"While we are grieving this process, There is a Hope." - Steven Curtis Chapman

I think Emily, the Chapman's eldest biological daughter, metaphorically expresses grief beautifully.

Click arrow below to watch Cinderella video

Hug your children a little tighter today. Take the time to DANCE with your Princes and Cinderellas.

SCC... Larry King Live

2008-08-05T09:31:00.000-07:00

Desperate grief... Awesome testimony! (I thought this interview was better than GMA's.)

Mary Beth: 'somewhat coldly I don't care whose lives are changed or what good this brings because a mommy's heart is to have Maria back.'

Six GREAT years

2008-07-28T21:37:00.000-07:00

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 Click on the arrow below to play video. (I am a novice when it comes to creating my own personal videos. Although comical... Tonight, Byron and I have successfully processed this video from my camera. We had a few obstacles to overcome; children playing in their backyards, air conditioning fans running, slight breeze, sun setting, and birds chirping in nearby trees. Oh, and you will hear the birds singing along as Byron plays. Some things are just out of my control. Setting: Recording Byron playing our wedding song on his guitar in our backyard. Byron wrote from his heart. Byron plays from his heart. Byron sings from his heart. We hope you enjoy our song. It still pulls at my heart strings.)

I know I am blessed to have such a special man to witness my life with. I LOVE YOU! "It's not about the years, honey, it's the mileage." (Who did I just quote?) Here's to more mileage.

I love you because... it is important to you that I am happy.
I love you because... you are not too manly to drive a minivan.
I love you because... you still chase me around the house.
I love you because... you surprise me with little gifts.
I love you because... you are faithful to our promises to each other.
I love you because...we made a beautiful family together.

Universal rules for a happy marriage...

2008-07-28T21:07:00.000-07:00

1. Never both be angry at the same time.

2. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your spouse.

3. Never bring up mistakes of the past.

4. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

5. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

6. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

7. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.

8. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.

9. It takes two to quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

10. At least once everyday, try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your spouse.

Update: Can you guess?

2008-07-28T19:17:00.000-07:00

Because I Love You Roses...

"Good Morning, Sweetness... Happy Anniversary. It has been six GREAT years. I Love You!"

Our Anniversary date started with lunch at my favorite sushi bar, Blue Nami. When you walk into this sushi bar, you will hear the chef say "Irrasshaimase," which means "welcome to our establishment." Eating there is such a unique experience. It's almost like stepping into the traditions and culture of Tokyo, Japan.

This picture was taken from our table side. The owner personally chef's his sushi bar. And he crafts his own tables, chairs, and waterfalls in his restaurant. Peaceful ambiance.

Sushi rolls: Chef's, James Bond, and Jason.

"Arigato goziamashita" Thank you very much!

"Gochi soo sama deshita" Really enjoyed the food.

After lunch, we headed downtown towards Old Sacramento and the K Street Mall. Walked around, people watched, shopped a little... then caught a movie. BATMAN. We both thought it was a great movie. There was an eeriness watching Heath Ledger play the Joker, the villian, for obvious reasons. BUT let me say, he played the character very WELL! Wouldn't be surprised if he wins the Oscars for that performance.

And to end the evening, we had a nice, quiet dinner of seafood at Fat City in Old Sacramento. (Our first dinner date together was here at Fat City.)

Thanks, Gramma Jackie for watching the kids for us so we could celebrate our 6th Anniversary!
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Origianl Post July 15, 2008

My wife and I were surfing the TV channels tonight... stopping to briefly watch Celebrity Family Fued. The celebrities were asked to: Name something men forget that women don't. One correct response was "Anniversary." Sharleen looks over at me asking (ahem), "Honey, When is our Anniversary?" After pausing for a moment, I replied "The same great day that I married you six years ago."

It turns out that our anniversary is THIS weekend, July 20th. Celebrating 45 Years, or so it seems. (Last year, she was 9 months pregnant with our son and due anyday. So we did not venture too far from the hospital. Braden was born 6 days later.)

Can you guess how we will decide to spend our 6th wedding anniversary?

a. Dinner: Rudy's Hide Away and a Movie: Get Smart.

b. Drive to the beach with the kids.

c. Go to the Silver Legacy and SLEEP for a few hours.

d. Stroll, hand-in-hand, around Old Sacramento and dinner by the River.

e. Fly to Edmonton, Canada to shop.

f. Night on the town in Vegas.

g. Spa day and a professional SF Giants ballgame.

h. Something spontaneous.

i. Just another day.

j. Other __________________

Any other suggestions???

Braden's 1st Birthday

2008-07-27T19:06:00.000-07:00

"Fanks for coming to my 1st birfday. Wove you!"

Look who turned ONE...

(Party theme: Thomas the Train.)

Playing at the water park.

Pinata!

Lovin' my new toys.

Yummy cake!

Happy 1st birthday, son. We LOVE you, sweet boy!

Lovin' the pool

2008-07-27T19:04:00.000-07:00

A little water play for the birthday boy! He loves to be close to his sisters no matter what they are doing. Splashing around the pool is no different.

Our "Betty Crocker" Princesses

2008-07-27T18:59:00.000-07:00

The process is just as important as the product, right? (Maybe even MORE important.)

Baking is definitely not my forte, but I give it my best shot occasionally. With Braden's 1st birthday coming up, I thought it would be fun to have the girls help make their baby brother's birthday cupcakes. My girls turn down something sweet? No way! With aprons on, they were happy to help. Their favorite part was licking the "egg" beaters once the cupcakes were in the oven. I think they did a great job. What do you think? (Auntie Lisa and I finished with the tic-tac-toe decorations.) Very pleased with the end product. Not bad if I say so myself...

Updated post...Carnegie Mellon University Last Lecture

2008-07-25T19:26:00.000-07:00

Updated post: Professor Randy Pausch lost his fight to incurable terminal cancer, on Friday, July 25, 2008. Thoughts and prayers are with his wife and children.

Click here: http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~pausch/news/

Original post June 18, 2008

I am like a "magnet" when it comes to inspirational educational moments.

For those of you not familiar with Professor Randy Pausch, here is some information I obtained from the Carnegie Mellon's website:

Carnegie Mellon Professor Randy Pausch is dying from pancreatic cancer (and is married with 3 small children). He gave his last lecture at the University Sept. 18, 2007, before a packed McConomy Auditorium. In his moving talk, “Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams,” Pausch talked about his lessons learned and gave advice to students on how to achieve their own career and personal goals.

"I, like Moses, can see the promise land, but won't set foot on it. And that is okay." -Randy Pausch (Translation: He inspires students and his personal children to seek their "childhood" dreams. He can see them along the way through every step, but won't live long enough to see them attain their goal.)

Letter from the White House

His original "last lecture" is 1 hour, 16 minutes, 26 seconds long. You can view it by typing "Randy Pausch last lecture" on youtube. To view shorter version click here to watch video: http://video.stumbleupon.com/#p=ithct48cqw

It is very moving and provides perspectives that we can all benefit from.

10 minute reprisal:

P.S. Professor Pausch's up-date: Randy is still with us but he is struggling with complications from chemo. To learn more about him, up-dates on his status, and information about pancreatic cancer, you can visit his website by clicking here: http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~pausch/news/

My prayer: You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My fervant prayer is that you will defy all odds, Lord willing, and live to be a very old man and be able to see your children grow into adults. I admire your attitude and courage, while at the same time, inspired by the spirit you choose to live by on a daily basis. May God richly bless you and your family during this very difficult time.

The Loomis'

2008-07-23T15:44:00.001-07:00

Swimming, swimming, and MORE SWIMMING!

Today, the kids and I were excited to spend the day with the Loomis family (Nanette, Jake, Heather, and Tracey) at the water park/pool for yet another nice day of swimming.

Picture below: Heather (left) and Tracey (right) doing hand stands under water! Looks like fun! Fourteen years of friendship with their mother, Nanette.
Nanette and I met in the Spring of 1994 while attending a college group at Sunrise Baptist Church. And ever since, we've managed to keep in touch over all these years.

Our memories include... (just to mention a few.)

...crashing at her studio when I was a commuting, professional student at CSUS. (Missy Homemaker made the best chicken cord on bleu!)

...proudly known as her singing answering machine.

...SNAC (which brings me to the next memory... read on.)

...ROAD TRIPS (My favorite on the road memory was the time we were driving to Prescott, Arizonia to surprise Amee for her birthday. Lets just say that we girls in the car were having so much fun beboppin', and singing away, that checking the gas gauge never even crossed our minds. You never heard a car full of girls get so quiet. We were in the middle of nowhere, really! The Tehachapi's. (Ever been there anyone?) We all sat in silence in what seemed like an eternity! We were all hoping and praying that a gas station was just around the next corner. Still driving on fumes, thankfully, about 15 minutes later... wha la... we had never been so happy to see a gas station. Didn't we pay almost $3.50 for THAT tank of gas? (That may be more of the norm now, but back then, many moons ago, that was a huge dip into our pocket books. Obviously, we didn't care.) Whew! Tank was full and our trip continued. Lesson learned.)

...starting our own families. She has three amazing kids. A son, Jake, who is 11 years old and going into the 6th grade. A daughter, Heather, who turns 9 years old next month and is about to be in the 4th grade. And another daughter, Tracey, who is 7 years old entering the 2nd grade this year.

Looking forward to many more years of friendship and happy memories!

A typical summer day with our cousins

2008-07-22T16:51:00.000-07:00

Ages: Bryce (11), Austin (11), Caitlyn (5), Tiegan (4), Riley (3), Kennedy (3), and Braden (1)

CFF swim lessons...

2008-07-21T17:41:00.000-07:00

Cousins, Emerson (6 years old) and Hudson (3 years old) took swim lessons too! (Picture above; on deck.) Enjoyed pool side conversation and soaking up the sun with Mommy, Heather! See you guys soon. Session 6?

If you can see the smoke and you can smell the smoke, then it is probably best not to be outdoors breathing in the smoke. Despite CFF rescheduling a couple of days of swim lessons due to unhealthy air quality from nearby fires in Butte County...Tiegan and Kennedy were very excited to go to the pool everyday! They have just completed their first "formal" session of private swim lessons; Turtle 1 and Turtle 2 class. Tara, their swim coach, was absolutely wonderful! She turned the task of teaching swimming 101 into a fun game for the girls. The girls were trying and doing new "things" in and under the water without even realizing it! (I chuckled.) Every now and then they would glance over at me to see if I caught their moment of triumph. I gave a clear thumbs up.

1. Face in water- bubble blowing, hold breath, retrieve objects... CHECK! CHECK! CHECK! CHECK!
2. 10 bobs to chin! CHECK!
3. Floats- front and back... CHECK! CHECK!
4. Supported kick in front... CHECK!
5. Arm strokes... CHECK!
6. Unassisted floats- enter/exit pool... CHECK! CHECK!

Braden has his own personal swimming pool to splash around in... Thanks Auntie Lisa!

Tiegan and Kennedy both liked to jump in from pool side and use the kick boards! Tiegan conquered several unassisted front strokes out to Tara from pool steps. Both girls thought monkey crawling on the pool wall was fun. Overall, this was a very positive experience for the girls. It really helped build up their self-confidence in the water and overcome some of their fears of the water. Watching other children who were also three and four years old reach their swim goals, challenged them as well. GO, girls!

Your next vacation?

2008-07-21T15:37:00.001-07:00

If gas prices keep going up... this is how all of us will be taking our vacations!

Birth order of children...

2008-07-21T14:20:00.000-07:00

Maternity clothes:
1st baby: You begin wearing maternity clothes as soon as your OB/GYN confirms your pregnancy.
2nd baby: You wear your regular clothes for as long as possible.
3rd baby: Your maternity clothes ARE your regular clothes.

Preparing for the birth:
1st baby: You practice your breathing religiously.
2nd baby: You don't bother because you remember that last time, breathing didn't do a thing.
3rd baby: You ask for an epidural in your eighth month.

The Layette:
1st baby: You pre-wash newborn's clothes, color-coordinate them, and fold them neatly in the baby's little bureau.
2nd baby: You check to make sure that the clothes are clean and discard only the ones with the darkest stains.
3rd baby: Boys can wear pink, can't they? (NOT if we can help it. BUT there is a lot of PINK in our house.)

Worries:
1st baby: At the first sign of distress, a whimper, a frown--you pick up the baby.
2nd baby: You pick the baby up when her wails threaten to wake your firstborn.
3rd baby: You teach your three-year-old how to rewind the mechanical swing.

Pacifier (our favorite):
1st baby: If the pacifier falls on the floor, you put it away until you can go home and wash and boil it.
2nd baby: When the pacifier falls on the floor, you squirt it off with some juice from the baby's bottle.
3rd baby: You wipe it off on your shirt and pop it back in.

Diapering:
1st baby: You change your baby's diapers every hour; whether they need it or not.
2nd baby: You change their diaper every two to three hours, if needed.
3rd baby: You try to change their diaper before others start to complain about the smell or you see it sagging to their knees.

Activities:
1st baby: You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics, Baby Swing, Baby Zoo, Baby Movies and Baby Story Hour.
2nd baby: You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics.
3rd baby: You take your infant to the supermarket and the dry cleaners.

Going Out:
1st baby: The first time you leave your baby with a sitter, you call home five times.
2nd baby: Just before you walk out the door, you remember to leave a number where you can be reached.
3rd baby: You leave instructions for the sitter to call only if she sees blood.

At Home:
1st baby: You spend a good bit of every day just gazing at the baby.
2nd baby: You spend a bit of everyday watching to be sure your older child isn't squeezing, poking, or hitting the baby.
3rd baby: You spend a little bit of every day hiding from the children.

Swallowing Coins:
1st child: When first child swallows a coin, you rush the child to the hospital and demand x-rays.
2nd child: When second child swallows a coin, you carefully watch for the coin to pass.
3rd child: When third child swallows a coin you deduct it from his allowance!

I laugh everytime I come across variations about parents behaviors when it comes to their firstborn... all the way down to their lastborn. Nonetheless, there is a lot of truth in this sarcastic humor! Have you experienced any of these birth order stereotypes? Do you have a favorite?

GRANDCHILDREN: God's reward for allowing your children to live.

Random "stuff"

2008-07-12T15:41:00.001-07:00

1. Tiegan and Kennedy have bouncy, healthy looking hair. Trimmed approximately 3 inches off.

2. Swim lessons: Day 3 and 4 postponed and rescheduled due to unhealthy air quality. Drought + Mother Nature= 300 scattered California fires. This fire season is a red flag warning. Smoke, smoke, and more smoke... Thanks Canada, Australia, New Zealand for offering a helping hand.

3. Rafael Nadal beats Roger Federer, the five time Wimbeldon champion, taking home his first Wimbeldon 2008 title. Federer: "Expect the worst and hope for the best. Nadal is the worst competitor to have... I tried everything." GREAT match! Nadal hurdles over spectators, hoists himself onto the rafters where his parents watched the competition; celebrating a long family hug! Priceless moment of victory! (I cried.)

4. Girls night out was a hoot! Laughed so hard it hurt! Literally. Enjoyed the company, sharing stories, cuttin' up, laughing, roasting Colleen, etc. (Have fun in Africa, Coll!) As usual... A really great time out. Shared several stories with Byron when I got home and he laughed out loud! (Anyone need a back rub?)

5. Byron's new hobby. He is now attempting to bid on ebay for vintage toys that he had when he was a kid; Planet of the Apes, Big Jim action figures, American Justice League, etc. Only to be outbid by a penny. Oh, the nostalgic childhood memories... Someone, please, help me. Will Braden really appreciate these toys, as much as, his "retro" dad did? I know, I know... he now has someone to pass them on too. (Hmmm... RETRO... sounds like our next pet name?)

6. Looking forward to watching the Summer Olympics in a few short weeks, 08-08-08; host- Beijing. GO USA!

7. I bet you can't do this... pull a rib from your vertebrae. Yes, you read that right. That is exactly what I managed to do Friday afternoon. (Oh, so that's what that sharp pain was?) Yowzers! I think it is amazing that chiropractors can pop, push, turn, pull your body back into alignment. The sounds of adjustments sent my feet flying into the air; natural reflexes I guess. It really feels like he put my rib back where it belongs one pop, push, turn, and pull at a time. A little bio-medic ice, skilled hands, electrotherapy, and ice packing to reduce the inflammation and prevent me from favoring one side over the other and I was on my way. Sore, but I feel like a million bucks today! Life goes on...

4th of July

2008-07-06T22:17:00.000-07:00

This was one of the best 4th of July celebrations we have ever had as a family! We chose to surround the kids in all of the local patriotic festivities that we could physically be a part of. The weather was absolutely perfect; cool with a slight breeze. (In past years, it has been too hot to really enjoy any outdoor venue for any length of time.)

Our day started at Royer Park where the Roseville parade marched by us. Local veterens led the pack. There were girl scouts, Alice in Wonderland floats, remember fallen soldiers cars, ROTC flag bearers, Roseville Fire Department and their families showing their patriotism with signs, songs, sirens, music, dress uniforms, costumes, flags, etc. After the parade had marched through town, the flood gates opened! Royer Park soon became a sea of families meandering among the venders, listening to patriotic music played by the local orchestra, eating kettle corn, and excited children scurring around at the play park. Tiegan and Kennedy stopped only for a moment to make a photo memory before they were off to the super slides and crazy bounce houses. Fun, fun, fun...

(Byron's friend, Chief Scott Mulligan; Roseville Fire Dept.)

The day continued on at #### Celtic Drive; the Ramsey's residence. Yes, the one and only, Uncle Tim's house. (Did you notice the street name that my brother lives on? Funny, huh?) This is where we devoured our midday American picnic of hamburgers and hot dogs, baked beans, homemade potato and macaroni salad, fried zucchini, fruit, watermelon, and refreshing glasses of iced tea. Patriotic dessert followed. D-e-l-i-c-i-o-u-s.

Afterwards, the girls had their own ametuer fireworks show; throwing party poppers in the middle of the street and twirling sparklers. But the real fun began at o'dark thirty. That's right, we trekked out to Lincoln Park for a fantastic fireworks show! The best we have seen in a few years! The kids were intently watching, even our little Braden man. All of the kids ooohed and aaahed at every loud BOOM and striking display of light! The show actually lasted a good half hour; I think there were three grand finales. SPECTACULAR!

The night was far from over. Back at the house... the street asphalt became our informal launching grounds. It was time for the dad's to "blow" stuff up. With boxes of the "GOOD STUFF" in hand, grill lighters, and family and friend spectators at a safe distance, the second fireworks show began. There is something wonderful about grown men giggling like children. Byron and Tim trying to out-do the other with one thing in mind... bringing it BIG! I guess we have our forefathers to thank for ensuring our country's independence so we can celebrate the holiday by combusting fireworks.

Celebrating the American way!

Happy 232nd Birthday, America!

2008-07-03T21:58:00.001-07:00

God Bless the Red, White, and Blue!

Thanks for protecting our freedoms.

As for our household, we are PROUD to be Americans.

God Bless AMERICA!

July 4th Trivia:
1. How many verses does the Star Spangled Banner have?
2. What is the last line of the last verse of our National Anthem?
3. Who wrote the Star Spangled Banner?
4. What is our national bird?
5. How were fireworks invented?
6. How is the flag supposed to be folded?
7. What are two things the flag should never touch?
8. The first Independence Day was July 4, 1776 but in what year was Fourth of July officially declared a national holiday by Congress?
9. Which president of the United States was born on the Fourth of July?
10. Which two presidents, both of whom signed the Declaration of Independence, died on the Fourth of July in 1826?
BONUS: How many signatures appeared on the Declaration of Independence?

Did you answer all 11 questions, right?

Hope you have a fun, but safe 4th of July!

Scroll down for answers:

1. Four.

2. O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave (it's the last line of each verse).

3. Francis Scott Key.

4. The bald eagle.

5. The Chinese invented them much the same way they constructed rockets for war.

6. The preferred way to fold the flag to show respect is to fold it into the shape of a triangle.

7. The ground or water.

8. 1941.

9. The 30th president, Calvin Coolidge

10. Thomas Jefferson and John Adams.

BONUS: Fifty-six.

How did you do?

California Hands-Free Law

2008-07-01T13:07:00.000-07:00

Well, it's official. It is now illegal, in California, to drive while talking on your hand held cell phone. This new "hands-free" law is in effect today! Byron and I have BLUETOOTH; a wireless link between our cell phone and the ear piece device. And it isn't so bad, really. But you do get what you pay for. So, invest wisely. Click and watch this short news video to hear more about the law itself and what your options are.

Just drive...

The ART of SUSHI making...

2008-06-29T22:30:00.001-07:00

Equipment Needed:

Bamboo sushi-roll mat

Clean cutting board

Sushi knife or very sharp knife

A pack of roasted-seaweed (Nori)

Wood spoon or wood or plastic rice paddle for spreading rice plastic wrap

Ingredients:

6 tablespoons rice vinegar

2 tablespoons sugar

2 teaspoons salt

3 cups uncooked Japanese medium grain rice

4 cups water

5 sheets or sushi nori (seaweed in big squares)

1 large cucumber or pickled cucumbers

2 to 3 avocados

Fresh lemon juice

Cooked snow crab meat

Wasabi (Japanese horseradish)

Soy Sauce

Pickled Ginger

Making sushi rice:
Start preparing the rice approximately 2 hours before you want to make the sushi rolls.
Wash rice, stirring with your hand, until water runs clear.
Place rice in a saucepan with water; soak 30 minutes.
Drain rice in colander and transfer to a heavy pot or rice cooker; add 4 cups water.
NOTE: To improve the texture of the rice, after rinsing, let the rice drain 30 minutes in the refrigerator before cooking.
If you don't have a rice cooker, place rice and water into a large heavy saucepan over medium-high heat; bring just to a boil, reduce heat to low and simmer, covered, for 15 minutes. Turn off heat and let rice rest, covered, for 15 additional minutes.
When rice is done cooking and resting, transfer to a large bowl; loosen rice grains gently with a rubber spatula or wooden spoon by cutting and folding (do not stir, as this will crush the rice). NOTE: Either use the rice soon after preparing it, or cover it with a damp cloth to keep it moist. Do not refrigerate the cooked rice.
Sprinkle the vinegar mixture over the rice, mixing together as you sprinkle (add enough dressing to coat the rice but not make it damp - you may not need to use all the vinegar dressing). Spread the hot rice on top of a large sheet of aluminum foil and let cool.
Preparing sushi ingredients:
Wash, peel, and seed cucumber. Slice in half lengthwise, then cut into long, slender strips.
Cut the avocados in half lengthwise, then remove the pit; cut each section in half again (lengthwise), and carefully remove the peel. Cut the section in long slender strips. Sprinkle the sliced avocado with lemon juice to keep from discoloring.
If you are using snow, crab, remove the crab meat from the thicker portion of the legs and cut in half lengthwise. If you are using imitation crab sticks, remove the plastic wrapping and cut each in half lengthwise.
Place the cucumber slices, avocado slice, and crab slices on a plate; cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate until you are ready to use.

Making the sushi:
Place the nori (dried seaweed) down first. Spread a thin layer, 3/4 to 1 cup, of rice over 3/4 of the nori leaving approximately one inch of uncovered nori at each end. Note: It helps to wet your fingers with cold water when you are patting the rice onto the nori.
Arrange strips of avocado and pickled cucumber along the center of the rice; top with battered/creamed crab meat.

Rolling the sushi:

Placing your fingers on the ingredients, carefully bring the bottom end of the rolling mat and the plastic wrap up and over the ingredients (tucking the end of the nori to start a roll). Pull back the rolling mat and plastic wrap, as necessary, so it does not get rolled into the sushi. NOTE: Roll tightly with firm pressure.

Continue rolling the sushi and pulling back the rolling mat and plastic wrap, as necessary, until you have approximately 1 to 2 inches of the top of the nori showing. Rub a small amount of cold water on the edge of the nori and bring the nori around so that it completes the sushi roll.

Gently squeeze the rolling mat around the sushi roll until it is firm and forms an even roll (be careful not to squeeze too hard, as you may crush the ingredients or squeeze them out).
Wrap the plastic wrap around the roll and set aside until ready to cut. Refrigerate or for longer storage. Repeat with remaining nori sheets to make additional rolls.

Cut and serve.

(Photos taken in my brother's, Tim, kitchen: June 29, 2008)

Our sushi maker!

"Grasshopper" has mastered the ART of making SUSHI!

Guess what we had for dinner last night?

If it walks and quacks like a duck...

2008-06-29T22:11:00.000-07:00

One Prince, Two Princesses

Our handsome 11 year old nephew, Austin
Our beautiful 5 year old niece, Miss Caitlyn
Our gorgeous 3 year old niece, Miss Riley
(photos taken in Auburn, California)

...then it must be a SWAN.

Happiness vs. Sadness

2008-06-25T22:21:00.000-07:00

Question:
Can you experience true happiness without sadness?

PARENT job description

2008-06-23T21:25:00.000-07:00

POSITION :
Mom, Mommy, Mama, Ma, Dad, Daddy, Dada, Pa, Pop:
Long term, team players needed, for challenging permanent work in an often chaotic environment. Candidates must possess excellent communication and organizational skills and be willing to work variable hours, which will include evenings and weekends and frequent 24 hour shifts on call. Some overnight travel required, including trips to primitive camping sites on rainy weekends and endless sports tournaments in far away cities! Travel expenses not reimbursed. Extensive courier duties also required.

RESPONSIBILITIES :
The rest of your life. Must be willing to be hated, at least temporarily, until someone needs $5. Must be willing to bite tongue repeatedly. Also, must possess the physical stamina of a pack mule and be able to go from zero to 60 mph in three seconds flat in case, this time, the screams from the backyard are not someone just crying wolf. Must be willing to face stimulating technical challenges, such as small gadget repair, mysteriously sluggish toilets and stuck zippers. Must screen phone calls, maintain calendars and coordinate production of multiple homework projects. Must have ability to plan and organize social gatherings for clients of all ages and mental outlooks. Must be willing to be indispensable one minute, an embarrassment the next. Must handle assembly and product safety testing of a half million cheap, plastic toys, and battery operated devices. Must always hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. Must assume final, complete accountability for the quality of the end product. Responsibilities also include floor maintenance and janitorial work throughout the facility.

POSSIBILITY FOR ADVANCEMENT & PROMOTION :
None.
Your job is to remain in the same position for years, without complaining, constantly retraining and updating your skills, so that those in your charge can ultimately surpass you.

PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE :
None required unfortunately. On-the-job training offered on a continually exhausting basis.

WAGES AND COMPENSATION :
Get this! You pay them! Offering frequent raises and bonuses. A balloon payment is due when they turn 18 because of the assumption that college will help them become financially independent. When you die, you give them whatever is left. The oddest thing about this reverse-salary scheme is that you actually enjoy it and wish you could only do more.

BENEFITS :
While no health or dental insurance, no pension, no tuition reimbursement, no paid holidays and no stock options are offered; this job supplies limitless opportunities for personal growth, unconditional love, and free hugs and kisses for life if you play your cards right.

Want the job? Is this what we signed up for?

Carnival

2008-06-22T21:11:00.000-07:00

Just plain SUMMER FUN!

Klondike Klub House: maze fun

Mad Science Show!

Kennedy on Bumble Bee ride.

Brady

Alligator roller coaster: Miss Kennedy holding on for dear life!

Tiegan flying the RED BARON.

Relaxin' on the train ride.

Maya Angelou

2008-06-21T22:26:00.000-07:00

When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not shouting "I'm clean living" I'm whispering "I was lost, now I'm found and forgiven."

When I say... "I am a Christian" I don't speak of this with pride. I'm confessing that I stumble and need Christ to be my guide.

When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not trying to be strong. I'm professing that I'm weak and need His strength to carry on.

When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not bragging of success. I'm admitting I have failed and need God to clean up my mess.

When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not claiming to be perfect, my flaws are far too visible but, God believes I am worth it.

When I say... "I am a Christian" I still feel the sting of pain. I have my share of heartaches, so I call upon His name.

When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not holier than thou; I'm just a simple sinner who received God's good grace, somehow!

Storytime

2008-06-18T20:09:00.001-07:00

Meet the storyteller.

Pancakes, Pancakes
Tiegan and Kennedy are participating in summer reading. Storytime is every Wednesday's and Saturday's @ 11:00 a.m. They listen to 5-6 different short stories. A small snack is served. And a learning activity is done with the kids to extend their reading experience for the day. There is an additional "pajamarama" storytime too. This is every 3rd Tuesday of the month at 6:30 p.m. Oh, and the girls wear their pajamas. So much fun! They also have a summer book club for kids Kindergarten through 2nd grade called, "Food Fun." All of these stories and activities are centered around food, of course. Reading for book club begins at 1:00 p.m. on Wednesday's.

Wednesday's at 1:00 p.m.

6/18 Pancakes, Pancakes by Eric Carle

6/25 Bunny Cakes by Rosemary Wells

7/2 No club this week; 4th of July week

7/9 Miss Spider's Tea Party by David Kirk

7/16 Mice and Beans by Pam Munoz Ryan

7/23 Martha Speaks by Susan Meddaugh

7/30 How are you peeling? by Saxton Freymann

(There are other book club themes for kids:

2nd through 3rd grade- Art Smart

4th through 6th grade- Fantasy and Adventure, Mystery, Nothin' but the Truth .

If you are interested, please let me know.)

Reading is fun!

("Color effects" Photos taken today: June 18, 2008)

GO CELTICS! 2008 NBA CHAMPIONS

2008-06-17T22:03:00.000-07:00

This blog was actually originally posted on June 2, 2008 when the 2008 NBA Finals began. Scroll down to view the outcome...

Win or lose? This Thursday, June 5th, starts the 2008 NBA Championship Finals; Boston Celtics vs. Los Angeles Lakers. Byron is so "pumped" right now that his team is there to play an old rival. Some say it is a rematch to the best rivalry of all time. Last time they played in the finals together was back in 1987... GO CELTICS! (GO green team, GO! -Tiegan and Kennedy)
1987: Larry Bird vs. Magic Johnson

Dig those short shorts?

NBA SERIES 2008:

Game #7: Not necessary

"NA NA NA NAH, NA NA NA NAH, HEY HEY HEY,

GOOD-BYE!"

Wow! What a game! Byron is so HAPPY! (And I'm happy because he's happy!)

WHA-HOO!

GAME 6: 131-92 Celtics Win!

BOSTON CELTICS: Series 4-2

NBA Champions 2008

Kungfu Panda

2008-06-17T18:07:00.000-07:00

Today, the girls and I went to Century 14 in Roseville to see, Dreamworks premier movie, Kungfu Panda. They have seen the promotional sculpture, of Panda, in the Galleria for weeks now. So I thought it was a no-brainer to take them to see what all the hype was about. The computer animation, brilliant colors, featured story line, and depicted asian culture all enhanced this wonderfully funny movie; not to mention, included a great talented cast. (Photo below.) The movie lasted an hour and thirty-one minutes which was not too long and held the girls' attention for the most part. (Kennedy wanted to sit on my lap for the last 20 minutes.) Any lull in the movie to storytell was quickly followed by hero vs. villian action. The girls loved it! They were thrilled to be at the theaters!

Kungfu Panda Movie Synopsis: Enthusiastic, big and a little clumsy, Po is the biggest fan of Kung Fu around--which doesn't exactly come in handy while working everyday in his family's noodle shop. Unexpectedly, chosen to fulfill an ancient prophecy, Po's dreams become reality when he joins the world of Kung Fu and studies alongside his idols, the legendary Furious Five-Tigress, Crane, Mantis, Viper and Monkey-under the leadership of their guru, Master Shifu. But before they know it, the vengeful and treacherous snow leopard Tai Lung is headed their way, and it's up to Po to defend everyone from the oncoming threat. Can he turn his dreams of becoming a Kung Fu master into reality? Po puts his heart-and his girth-into the task, and the unlikely hero ultimately finds that his greatest weaknesses turn out to be his greatest strengths.(Part of the cast: Dustin Hoffman, Angelina Jolie, Jack Black)

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My thoughtful neighbor, Andrea, who lives two doors down on my left, emailed me this list of FREE summer movie showtimes. So I thought I would pass it on to you. It started today! Doors open around 9:00 a.m. and viewing begins at 10:00 a.m.

FREE summer movies:

Location: Olympus Pointe 12520 N. Sunrise Avenue, Roseville ,CA 95661 916-772-1246

06/17/2008-06/18/2008 Rugrats the Movie (G) Nancy Drew (PG)
06/24/2008-06/25/2008 Rugrats in Paris: The Movie (G) Shrek The Third (PG)
07/01/2008-07/02/2008 Charlotte's Web (G) Flushed Away (PG)
07/08/2008-07/09/2008 Jimmy Neutron: Boy Genius (G) The Second Junglebook (PG)

07/15/2008-07/16/2008 Wallace and Gromit (G) Hook (PG)
07/22/2008-07/23/2008 Muppets Take Manhattan (G) Stuart Little (PG)
07/29/2008-07/30/2008 Everyone's Hero (G) Bratz (PG)
08/05/2008-08/06/2008 Adventures of Pipi Longstocking (G) Alvin & The Chipmunks (PG)

08/12/2008-08/13/2008 Doogal (G) Are We There Yet? (PG)

Mistaken Identity: Two Families, One Survivor, Unwavering Hope

2008-06-15T21:54:00.000-07:00

Leisure time is limited. But somehow, somewhere in our evenings, we manage to squeeze in some time to read as a couple. We, originally, heard about "this true story" about Laura Van Ryn and Whitney Cerek on the national news back in April/May of 2006. We were instantly intrigued and shocked by this case of "mistaken identity." We first thought, "Oh, my!" That means one was buried under the wrong name. And the other in coma, being cared for by the wrong family. We are only a few chapters into the book. (And I have to tell you, we haven't yet made it through an entire chapter without tearing up as some point. In Chapter 2: We had to finish reading the chapter silently by ourselves.) As the book unfolds, we'll be back here to comment. I have quoted the "hook" below. THE HOOK: (Back cover sleeve reads as follows)

Five lives were lost in a tragic accident involving a Taylor University van, and one young woman, severely injured and comatose, was rushed to the hospital.

Five funerals were held. Families, faculty, students, and communities grieved their losses and joined in prayer and hope as the young woman, Laura Van Ryn, fought for her life in a hospital bed. The national news spread the story, and people everywhere shared their grief and the hope.

Five weeks passed for the Cerek family. Believing they had buried their daughter, the Cerek's clung to their faith and worshipped God through their tears, learning to look forward with hope to an eternal reunion with their lovely daughter, Whitney. They spent weeks of mourning and grief surrounded by loved ones, slowly moving toward healing.

Five weeks passed for the Van Ryns. Keeping a constant bedside vigil over their precious daughter, Laura, they sat and prayed and hoped. Confronted with tubes and surgeries, vital signs and healing signs, they rejoiced at each tiny advance toward recovery. Their friends and church and family members, along with a steady stream of students, celebrated with them at each sign of Laura's healing.

And then the shock!

"Okay, Laura, I would like you to write your name for me," the occupational therapist said.

W-H-I-T-N-E-Y

An event that could be seen as pure tragedy becomes a celebration of life's unfathomable gifts and mysteries.

What are you reading?

Happy Father's Day, Daddy

2008-06-14T19:17:00.000-07:00

"We love you as high as the sky and as deep as the sea!" -Tiegan

"Daddy, you're the BEST!" -Kennedy

"Yaayaa daa baabaa yaa maa yaayaa." -Braden

Thank you for praising me when I accomplish something that is important to me.

(Photo taken in Tahoe: South Shore)

A Daddy is a person
who is loving and kind,
And often he knows

what you have on your mind.

He's someone who listens,

suggests, and defends.

A daddy can be one

of your very best friends!

He's proud of your triumphs,

but when things go wrong,

A daddy can be patient

and helpful and strong.

In all that you do,

a daddy's love plays a part.

There's always a place for him

deep in your heart.

And each year that passes,

you're even more glad,

More grateful and proud

just to call him your daddy!

Thank you, Daddy...for listening and caring,

for giving and sharing,

but, especially, for just being you!

Thank you for chasing and playing hide and seek with me. -Tiegan
Thank you for playing catch and ball with me. -Kennedy
Thank you for wrestling with me. -Braden

Love you, Daddy!!!

Tiegan, Kennedy, and Braden

June 15, 2008

My husband...

is the BEST hands-on Daddy to our three young'ins.
loves us unconditionally.
has a very BIG heart.
is a great provider for our family.
is very attentive to our kids.
isn't afraid to cry.
always makes me laugh!
makes us happy.
is very protective of our family.
makes us all feel safe.
sacrafices so much of himself for our family.
loves to play his guitar any chance he can.
is a BIG kid himself sometimes.
is caring and loving.
is silly and goofy.
shares in the responsibilities of the kids' needs and well-being.
expresses himself through song writing the most heartfelt songs about faith, love, life, and children.

We are so blessed to have him in our lives!

LuAnn Comic: A little Father's Day humor

2008-06-14T19:01:00.000-07:00

Dream vs. Reality

King Daddy Byron

In honor of Father's Day:

Tiegan and Kennedy: Dad's the BOSS, right MOM?

Braden Gavin, our sweet, A-N-G-E-L, boy

2008-06-13T19:01:00.001-07:00

I'm all BOY!

[Lil' digger *Drooling *Wet kisses *Digging in the dirt *Wrestling with Daddy *Giving Mommy hugs * Throwing the ball *Grunts *Bugs his sissy's *Knocks down sister's towers](Photos taken today: June 13, 2008)

Mommy's handsome, sweet A-N-G-E-L boy.
10 months old, 27 pounds.
My secret crush.
Smothered with tons of hugs and kisses!
Happy boy!
Adorable smile!
Teething; bottom two teeth are in, top ones are cutting through.
Puts everything in his mouth; even his toes!
Crawls all over the house.
Plays and adores his sisters!
So far, an easy baby to love and care for.
Enjoys self-feeding himself with his Gerber strawberry, apple, and banana melt aways.
Pulls himself up, stands, walks along the furniture, but will not let go.
Wrestles with Daddy.
Chatter box.
Loves to play in the water.
Giggles.

Camping

2008-06-10T19:12:00.000-07:00

Lake Francis Campgrounds

Dobbins, CaliforniaFor the past several years, we have made it a point to plan camping trips with our kids. The kids all love being outdoors and exploring nature. We want them to experience and appreciate God's beauty as we did as kids. This year we were fortunate enough to also share neighboring campsites with my brother, Tim, and his beautiful family. (Tim and Lisa, you rock!) We spent three days and two nights sleeping under the stars at Lake Francis in Dobbins, California. Friday (June 6th): The anticipation could be felt before we even left the driveway. In fact, Tiegan and Kennedy were so excited that they could hardly even sleep the night before. The Sienna was packed to the roof with camping gear. Upon arriving at the campgrounds, approximately two hours later, the girls and their cousins, Austin, Caitlyn, and Riley, were immediately on their way exploring for bugs. They collected earwigs, rollie pollies, beetles, grasshoppers, centipedes (which we encouraged to be released right back into nature), etc. That kept them busy until camp was set up and all the tents were pitched. Dinner was B-B-Q. And Tim's campfire was a perfect ending to a busy, fun-filled day. (Kids were happy that they didn't have to take a bath before bed.) Flashlights were a hit and kept them all entertained for hours. Saturday (June 7th): Everyone was up bright and early ready to begin the day. Morning started off with a hot, delicious breakfast; bacon, eggs, potatoes, and sausages. Kids could hardly sit still long enough to eat. They were anticipating going fishing with Byron and Tim. In just a couple of hours, they caught 6 fish altogether. (We catch and release.) Austin, now 11 years old, fished alone while all four of the girls helped with reeling in the fish. Great memories and experience. After lunch, a game of wiffle ball, follow the leader, big bouncy ball, and frisbee was played. We took a long nature walk deep into the back woods along the designated trails. Hours of playing in the dirt and water kept them content. But the highlight of the day was in the evening around the campfire when each of the kids adorned themselves with glow sticks eagerly waiting to roast smores. Yummy! We adults enjoyed our campfire rendezvous after all the kids were snuggled in their sleeping bags. Sunday (June 8th): Camp clean-up... returning home, time to pack up... back to reality. Everything fit in the van originally, why not now? Even though none of the kids wanted to leave the campgrounds, they were equally glad to be home; clean baths, no shoes. They slept so hard in their own beds. For Braden, this camping trip was a first for him... FIRST time sleeping in a tent... FIRST time outside under the stars by a campfire... FIRST time going almost all day without a nap. Braden was a TRUE camper, taking it ALL in. Happy trails until we meet again. We are already planning our next camping trip. Who wants to go?